Am worried about D2 her mother will be back here in Johannesburg, its time to think about stage 2 of her healing. Not sure what she wants to do. D2 came to us on her own & asked to be admitted to the house. She is a lovely 18 year old girl who has gone through a lot. Parents divorce, abuse in the household, very strict beliefs she is not sure of anymore as what she is living & what she is being taught are 2 very different things. She has been with us for 2 weeks and is calling us mom & dad. This is almost unheard of but also shows me that she is in need for a "normal" parental role model. Guess I need to let things play out & be here when she needs me for guidance.
Am expecting a problem with M, she left for school this morning then sent me a long sms asking to sleep over at a friends & then she will go with them to a party in a bad part of town & her cousin will pick her up & she will stay at another cousins house for the night & then cousin 1 will bring her home on Sunday afternoon. Just to add here she did take everything she needed for the weekend with her so she has thought this plan. Anyway I said no sleep over. So now I have to wait to see if she is going to come home.
Never a dull moment in this house.
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